Chaos to Connected - Helping Parents Navigate Challenging Behavior with Connection; Christian moms, behavior management, positive parenting, discipline, tantrums, aggression, biblical parenting

Have you ever been in between 2 (or more) kids who all want your attention and you felt overwhelmed with what to do and who to help or attend to first?
I find this to be one of the bigger challenges of motherhood, especially if both are crying and screaming for you! How do you possibly choose?? And when you do choose the other child(ren) make it seem like you've made the wrong choice!
Today, I give you a few tips on how to determine who needs you the most in those moments and how to utilize connection communication to still help the other child(ren) feel seen and heard. I also share an additional strategy for how you can be proactive!!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Creating a Connection Plan Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000556650157
 
15 Simple Ways to Connect Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000561043427
 
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 
 

Have you ever wondered what it looked like to be a kingdom focused mother? Or felt completely overwhelmed by trying to train your child up in the Lord?
 
Today, join Emily, from @kingdommotherhood, and I as we talk about it all! 
 
Emily is a mom of 3 who has truly learned to rely on the Lord for guidance on how to parent her kids from a biblical perspective. We cover:
 
*prayer: how to pray for our kids and how to start incorporating prayer more into your daily routines and habits
*communication: how to start hearing from the Holy Spirit and tips to train yourself to turn toward the Lord 
*strategies to encourage your children in their own walk with the Lord and what to do when there is resistance
*tips to be regularly in the Word and living your life for Christ in your day to day life
*what to do in the midst of challenging behaviors/trying to figure out how to discipline your child
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
If you want to connect with Emily more, check out all she has to offer!
 
Instagram: @kingdommotherhood https://www.instagram.com/kingdommotherhood/?hl=en
 
Kingdom Motherhood Blueprint: https://www.kingdommotherhoodblueprint.com/opt-in-new1655256320738#KingdomMotherhood.org
 
Blessings for your children ($57 value so thoughtfully gifted to you for FREE): file:///home/chronos/u-333151b1209606187789cc2e55bac2d9ff53b9d2/MyFiles/Downloads/Blessing%20Over%20Your%20Children%20Repeat%20this%20over%20them%20to%20instill%20in%20them%20who%20they%20are%20and%20whose%20they%20are!%20When%20we%20come%20into%20agreement%20with%20the%20word%20of%20God,%20it%20releases%20powerful%20identity%20and%20destiny%20into%20our%20children%20and%20.pdf
 
I hope this episode blessed you!
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 
 

Have you ever sat through a long day of tantrums and behaviors and thought I wish he/she could just be "good?" 
Or do you have a child that follows directions, never pushes back, and always does the "right" thing?
Today, we dive into whether or not that truly is better and something to be desired from your child.
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

One of the biggest challenges in parenting can be the blending of two different perspectives learning how to come together and figure out a plan for discipline. This can create even more tension when one parent has a preference for connection focused strategies and the other parent doesn't.
 
Join me as I chat about perspective shifts, strategies and some encouragement if your spouse isn't quite as excited about connected parenting as you are.
 
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of what to do, then head here for all the details.
https://view.flodesk.com/emhttps://dawn-term-318.myflodesk.comails/62c479aee3f481bcc48af99d
 
Free audio training on how to Tame Your Triggers: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/633ad12aff6e9a5490d013e4
 
Free Special Time e-guide: the #1 Strategy for Transforming Behavior: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621850e5a41d78f73c5012d8
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
Chaos to Calm Course waitlist: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621850e5a41d78f73c5012d8
 
I would love to connect with you and hear more about your journey! If you’d like to submit a question to get answered on an episode of the podcast, leave it here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/10VctOlDhunyQUXEEaDz5m0emFufCVpCvFj9yNzEFicU/edit
 
XO-
Kaili
 

Do you find yourself in the middle of what feels like a losing battle with your child?
You get frustrated and in attempts to regain control the tantrum grows and the cycle continues.
What if there was one simple shift you could make to help lessen the conflict and gain obedience?
Check out today's episode to hear my top tip!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

There is so much depth to our reactions to the behaviors we encounter. It can be extremely difficult to see the patterning that we have developed from our upbringing and the molding that has occurred from society.
 
Today, I share with you 3 ways we unintentionally stop our child from expressing and releasing their feelings. This is always helpful for me in the middle of meltdowns to be more aware of to help change my natural patterning.
 
Which one do you struggle with or tend to rely on the most?
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

Do you struggle to find balance in motherhood? Or wonder if there is such a thing? Have you felt like you've lost yourself in motherhood or are finding it really challenging to prioritize taking care of yourself and managing all the things?
 
Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with Jenna, creator of The Balanced Mom Method, mom of 2 who set out on a journey to help other moms find balance in motherhood following her struggles during the fourth trimester with her first born. She has a passion for showing moms how to create life balance without having to choose between their family, priorities, & themselves.
 
Join us as we talk through what balance is, the motherhood mindset loop, plus 6 tips on how to attain the balance you are desiring!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Find Jenna over on instagram @naturallyempoweredliving: https://www.instagram.com/naturallyempoweredliving/?hl=en
 
Join her motherhood empowerment circle over on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/naturallyempoweredlivingmoms
 
Join the Balanced Mom Method here: https://naturallyempoweredliving.thrivecart.com/tbmm/
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

With my background as a pediatric occupational therapist and working in an outpatient clinic, I came across recommendations of ignoring behavior as a behavioral modification strategy, frequently.
At the time, I honestly didn't think much of it because I didn't know any different.
However, I'd like to offer you a fresh perspective on whether or not ignoring your child's behavior actually helps and why! Check it out!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Episode on special time: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

Does your child ever lash out when he/she is upset and hit, kick, bite, or pinch?
 
Did you know this is actually a NORMAL response to stored up fear and anger?
 
Want to know why the punishments and time outs aren’t working to get rid of the behavior? 
 
Because it’s perpetuating the cycle of disconnection and the inability for your child to think logically. It also dampens the child’s ability to learn through co-regulation.
 
Obviously we don’t want our children to continue with this behavior long term, so what do we do about it….
 
Today, I walk you through 5 tips that have successfully helped the aggression in our home move from multiple times per day to maybe 1-2 times per week. BONUS: the child that tends to the aggressive side  is actually showing improved impulse control prior to reacting and following through with what I have been training and teaching him to do! This is huge!
 
I hope this is an encouragement and a helpful peek inside your child’s brain!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Episode on how to listen through upsets: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000554474011
 
Episode on special time: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili
 

In the busyness of life or the challenge of the season of motherhood you're in, it can be extremely difficult to feel connected to your child.
 
Do you ever go to bed at night feeling guilty about the time you had, whether not enough or not used in the way you wished it would have been?
 
Does your child have some challenging behaviors?
 
I have the solution for both! CONNECTION.
 
When our child feels disconnected, the brain is hard wired to signal us for help. When we can get reconnected, we see a major shift in behavior.
 
Join me as we chat 15 simple ways to maintain connection and fill your child's connection cup to improve behavior!
 
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
 
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
 
Special time podcast episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
 
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
 
XO-
Kaili