Chaos to Connected - Helping Parents Navigate Challenging Behavior with Connection; Christian moms, behavior management, positive parenting, discipline, tantrums, aggression, biblical parenting
Do you feel like your child’s whining and tantrums are out of control? Are you wondering if what you’re seeing is actually normal? Do you feel like you are at your wits end, walking on eggshells, and/or just don’t know what to do anymore? Or maybe you feel exhausted and frustrated trying to manage your own triggers because you keep repeating the same yelling and lecturing cycle over and over again. Are you desperately trying to get your child to use a calming strategy but he/she refuses or it’s just not working? If you nodded along with any of that, you’re in the right place! Hi, I’m Kaili, pediatric occupational therapist, connection focused parent coach, and momma to 3 sweet littles. Back in 2020, I started an in-home daycare so I could stay home with my kids while making an income and let’s just say it didn’t go as planned. My oldest became very aggressive, something he had never been before. I tried all of the calming strategies and creating different spaces for him and NONE of it worked. I was really struggling because that is all I had been teaching other families to do for the last decade and to find out it wasn’t helping left me feeling even more hopeless. When I finally found the solution that transformed our family’s lives, I knew I needed to share it with other families in hopes they wouldn’t feel alone, emotionally exhausted, and spend their days wishing for naptime/bedtime like I had been. I created this podcast to give you tangible strategies to decrease your child’s behavior and also help you to learn to manage and resolve your own triggers. This podcast will help you gain more awareness and insights into child development and the root cause of your child’s behavior as well as help you break generational patterning that isn’t serving you. Inside this podcast you will find episodes filled with tips, tools, perspective shifts, and biblical truth to help you throughout your motherhood journey. Most of what I share is going to go against your natural responses and what mainstream will tell you to do, but that is because it includes what most of society is missing when they look at children and their behavior…CONNECTION. It is a vital necessity for all of us to operate out of our thinking brains and use logic, problem solving, reasoning, judgment, and impulse control, specifically when it comes to our responses and behaviors. While these strategies can be implemented for all ages, I focus primarily on 1-10 year olds since that is what I have most personal and professional experience with. If you want to stop feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and on the verge of your breaking point and truly make shifts in your parenting, your actions, thoughts, and responses, to gain more clarity, peace, and joy in your home, then let’s get to it! I know it can feel hard to step into the unknown, especially because you feel like you’ve tried it all, and honestly sometimes it feels easier to stay in a harder place because it’s familiar. But it’s not what God has for you or your child(ren). So take a minute, breathe deeply, and then join me as we jump into managing behaviors with connection! XO Kaili Connect with me: hello@kailizcoaching.com Instagram: @kaili.zeiher Join my weekly newsletter: https://chaostoconnected.myflodesk.com/cvuin24b94 Website + Coaching Opportunities: https://stan.store/KJZ112815
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Friday Jun 24, 2022
Friday Jun 24, 2022
There is so much advice and so many expectations placed on us as moms/parents.
What if I told you there is 1 main thing I think is most important to be consistent with in your parenting??
Listen in as I aim to take some of the overwhelm off your shoulders and give you one tangible strategy to focus on this week!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Have you ever been in between 2 (or more) kids who all want your attention and you felt overwhelmed with what to do and who to help or attend to first?
I find this to be one of the bigger challenges of motherhood, especially if both are crying and screaming for you! How do you possibly choose?? And when you do choose the other child(ren) make it seem like you've made the wrong choice!
Today, I give you a few tips on how to determine who needs you the most in those moments and how to utilize connection communication to still help the other child(ren) feel seen and heard. I also share an additional strategy for how you can be proactive!!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Creating a Connection Plan Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000556650157
15 Simple Ways to Connect Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000561043427
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Friday Jun 17, 2022
Friday Jun 17, 2022
Have you ever wondered what it looked like to be a kingdom focused mother? Or felt completely overwhelmed by trying to train your child up in the Lord?
Today, join Emily, from @kingdommotherhood, and I as we talk about it all!
Emily is a mom of 3 who has truly learned to rely on the Lord for guidance on how to parent her kids from a biblical perspective. We cover:
*prayer: how to pray for our kids and how to start incorporating prayer more into your daily routines and habits
*communication: how to start hearing from the Holy Spirit and tips to train yourself to turn toward the Lord
*strategies to encourage your children in their own walk with the Lord and what to do when there is resistance
*tips to be regularly in the Word and living your life for Christ in your day to day life
*what to do in the midst of challenging behaviors/trying to figure out how to discipline your child
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
If you want to connect with Emily more, check out all she has to offer!
Instagram: @kingdommotherhood https://www.instagram.com/kingdommotherhood/?hl=en
Kingdom Motherhood Blueprint: https://www.kingdommotherhoodblueprint.com/opt-in-new1655256320738#KingdomMotherhood.org
Blessings for your children ($57 value so thoughtfully gifted to you for FREE): file:///home/chronos/u-333151b1209606187789cc2e55bac2d9ff53b9d2/MyFiles/Downloads/Blessing%20Over%20Your%20Children%20Repeat%20this%20over%20them%20to%20instill%20in%20them%20who%20they%20are%20and%20whose%20they%20are!%20When%20we%20come%20into%20agreement%20with%20the%20word%20of%20God,%20it%20releases%20powerful%20identity%20and%20destiny%20into%20our%20children%20and%20.pdf
I hope this episode blessed you!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Tuesday Jun 14, 2022
Tuesday Jun 14, 2022
Have you ever sat through a long day of tantrums and behaviors and thought I wish he/she could just be "good?"
Or do you have a child that follows directions, never pushes back, and always does the "right" thing?
Today, we dive into whether or not that truly is better and something to be desired from your child.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Friday Jun 10, 2022
Friday Jun 10, 2022
One of the biggest challenges in parenting can be the blending of two different perspectives learning how to come together and figure out a plan for discipline. This can create even more tension when one parent has a preference for connection focused strategies and the other parent doesn't.
Join me as I chat about perspective shifts, strategies and some encouragement if your spouse isn't quite as excited about connected parenting as you are.
Special Time Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872#episodeGuid=kjzeiher.podbean.com%2F54e66b44-06dd-3cc2-8415-ef33cf170549
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of what to do, then head here for all the details.
https://view.flodesk.com/emhttps://dawn-term-318.myflodesk.comails/62c479aee3f481bcc48af99d
Free audio training on how to Tame Your Triggers: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/633ad12aff6e9a5490d013e4
Free Special Time e-guide: the #1 Strategy for Transforming Behavior: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621850e5a41d78f73c5012d8
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
Chaos to Calm Course waitlist: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621850e5a41d78f73c5012d8
I would love to connect with you and hear more about your journey! If you’d like to submit a question to get answered on an episode of the podcast, leave it here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/10VctOlDhunyQUXEEaDz5m0emFufCVpCvFj9yNzEFicU/edit
XO-
Kaili
Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
Do you find yourself in the middle of what feels like a losing battle with your child?
You get frustrated and in attempts to regain control the tantrum grows and the cycle continues.
What if there was one simple shift you could make to help lessen the conflict and gain obedience?
Check out today's episode to hear my top tip!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Friday Jun 03, 2022
Friday Jun 03, 2022
There is so much depth to our reactions to the behaviors we encounter. It can be extremely difficult to see the patterning that we have developed from our upbringing and the molding that has occurred from society.
Today, I share with you 3 ways we unintentionally stop our child from expressing and releasing their feelings. This is always helpful for me in the middle of meltdowns to be more aware of to help change my natural patterning.
Which one do you struggle with or tend to rely on the most?
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Tuesday May 31, 2022
Tuesday May 31, 2022
Do you struggle to find balance in motherhood? Or wonder if there is such a thing? Have you felt like you've lost yourself in motherhood or are finding it really challenging to prioritize taking care of yourself and managing all the things?
Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with Jenna, creator of The Balanced Mom Method, mom of 2 who set out on a journey to help other moms find balance in motherhood following her struggles during the fourth trimester with her first born. She has a passion for showing moms how to create life balance without having to choose between their family, priorities, & themselves.
Join us as we talk through what balance is, the motherhood mindset loop, plus 6 tips on how to attain the balance you are desiring!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Find Jenna over on instagram @naturallyempoweredliving: https://www.instagram.com/naturallyempoweredliving/?hl=en
Join her motherhood empowerment circle over on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/naturallyempoweredlivingmoms
Join the Balanced Mom Method here: https://naturallyempoweredliving.thrivecart.com/tbmm/
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Friday May 27, 2022
Friday May 27, 2022
With my background as a pediatric occupational therapist and working in an outpatient clinic, I came across recommendations of ignoring behavior as a behavioral modification strategy, frequently.
At the time, I honestly didn't think much of it because I didn't know any different.
However, I'd like to offer you a fresh perspective on whether or not ignoring your child's behavior actually helps and why! Check it out!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Episode on special time: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Friday May 20, 2022
Friday May 20, 2022
Does your child ever lash out when he/she is upset and hit, kick, bite, or pinch?
Did you know this is actually a NORMAL response to stored up fear and anger?
Want to know why the punishments and time outs aren’t working to get rid of the behavior?
Because it’s perpetuating the cycle of disconnection and the inability for your child to think logically. It also dampens the child’s ability to learn through co-regulation.
Obviously we don’t want our children to continue with this behavior long term, so what do we do about it….
Today, I walk you through 5 tips that have successfully helped the aggression in our home move from multiple times per day to maybe 1-2 times per week. BONUS: the child that tends to the aggressive side is actually showing improved impulse control prior to reacting and following through with what I have been training and teaching him to do! This is huge!
I hope this is an encouragement and a helpful peek inside your child’s brain!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Episode on how to listen through upsets: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected/id1609008872?i=1000554474011
Episode on special time: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
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