Chaos to Connected - Helping Parents Navigate Challenging Behavior with Connection; Christian moms, behavior management, positive parenting, discipline, tantrums, aggression, biblical parenting
Inside this podcast you will find episodes filled with tips, tools & strategies, perspective shifts, and biblical truth to help you throughout your motherhood journey, navigating your child's behavior and your own triggers. Most of what I share is going to go against your natural responses and what mainstream will tell you to do, but that is because it includes what most of society is missing when they look at children and their behavior…CONNECTION. It is a vital necessity for all of us to operate out of our thinking brains and use logic, problem solving, reasoning, judgment, and impulse control, specifically when it comes to our responses and behaviors. While these strategies can be implemented for all ages, I focus primarily on 1-10 year olds since that is what I have most personal and professional experience with.
If you want to stop feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and on the verge of your breaking point and truly make shifts in your parenting, your actions, thoughts, and responses, to gain more clarity, peace, and joy in your home, then let’s get to it!
P.S. I know it can feel hard to step into the unknown, especially because you feel like you’ve tried it all, and honestly sometimes it feels easier to stay in a harder place because it’s familiar. But it’s not what God has for you or your child(ren). So take a minute, breathe deeply, and then join me as we jump into managing behaviors with connection!
XO Kaili
Connect with me: kjzeiher@gmail.com
Instagram: @kaili.zeiher
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Episodes
Sep 30, 2022
Sep 30, 2022
7 min
It is really easy to get in the habit of shouting commands at our kids when they are behaving in a way that we don't like. But kids often need more direction than we are naturally inclined to give. What if we take it a step further and actually train them in what to do instead?
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 27, 2022
Sep 27, 2022
8 min
Did you know that the way your child learns most is through observation??
That also means that the saying "do what I say, not as I do" doesn't actually work.
So I have a question for you...what are you modeling for your child?
Unfortunately, it is often our natural inclination to respond to a behavior in a way that's actually reinforcing the behavior we don't want.
Listen in as I chat through what exactly that looks like and what you can do to shift it.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 23, 2022
Sep 23, 2022
18 min
Have you ever noticed that your child engaged in an experience but before he/she even got into it, he/she shut down?
Today, I want to talk with you about the concept of the 'just right' challenge and how we can implement this to help our child progress emotionally, especially when they have some stuck hurts or traumas.
If you struggle with managing your own triggers while listening to crying, this is an episode you don't want to miss!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
Behavior Blueprint Live Coaching session 3 (behavior is communication): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-behavior-management-parent-coach/id1609008872?i=1000575508703
Behavior Blueprint Live Coaching session 2 (separation anxiety): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-behavior-management-parent-coach/id1609008872?i=1000574771349
Behavior Blueprint Live Coaching session 1 (aggression and stay listening): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-behavior-management-parent-coach/id1609008872?i=1000571211679
XO-
Kaili
Sep 20, 2022
Sep 20, 2022
12 min
Have you ever had to go on a work trip? Or wanted to go on a girls' trip? A vacation with your husband? Or maybe you just had to be out of town for the day.
Separation can be hard for our children, but there is a way that we can proactively prepare them and utilize connection strategies to help them process big feelings and emotions to help them resolve anything that gets triggered or comes up for them before you leave and after you come back.
Tune in as I chat through 4 ways to prepare your child for when you are gone for a longer than normal period!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Episode on special time: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 16, 2022
Sep 16, 2022
15 min
One of the most widely used behavior modification and management strategies I've heard is the method in which you count to 3 (hoping not to make it to 3). The idea is that your child will get the hint that the behavior needs to change and offer him/her additional time before the consequence comes when you say "3".
I heard once that delayed obedience is still disobedience and it shifted how I thought about a lot of things in life.
Today, I dive into what I believe this method is training our kids to do and some questions to think about as you move forward.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 13, 2022
Sep 13, 2022
10 min
Have you ever felt pressure in your parenting? Maybe it's in the food you give your child(ren). Maybe it's the way you manage his/her behaviors. Maybe it's spending money you don't have so your child(ren) can have the next newest thing.
Whatever it is, you aren't alone in it. Today, I share the biggest way I've learned to overcome any judgment or pressures I feel on this motherhood journey.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 9, 2022
Sep 9, 2022
19 min
Do your kids struggle to get along???
Mine have for the LONGEST time! I know there will always be some sibling rivalry there, but it was far beyond that. Let's just say that the first year of my second son's life was not welcomed with a lot of love from my oldest. I truly believe I had a bigger part to play in that, then I even realized at the time.
Today, I want to help you uncover things you are saying or doing that might be unintentionally creating some distance between your kids and 6 things to think about to encourage sibling bonding.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 6, 2022
Sep 6, 2022
16 min
Do you ever need your child to stay in one place AND be somewhat quiet?? Seems like quite the feat!
But it is possible! And it's possible without bribes and punishment/threats of consequences. Today I wanted to share 2 components that I think are essential to be able to support your child so they can be successful and you don't feel like you're pulling your hair out!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
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Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Sep 2, 2022
Sep 2, 2022
8 min
Have you ever heard the saying, "play is the work of the child"?
Play is such an important part of our jobs as parents - and one I definitely have to work at.
Join me today as I share with you one simple way to uplevel play with your child that brings more connection and laughter!
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Special time podcast episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-you-struggling-with-your-childs-behaviors-ep-1/id1609008872?i=1000550595812
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili
Aug 30, 2022
Aug 30, 2022
9 min
Have you ever been in the middle of a conversation with your child or disciplining/training a child and suddenly they start shouting "leave me alone"...
Today, I want to offer a new perspective on what your child is actually communicating and how you can respond in a different way that builds connection, helps your child with emotional recovery, and decreases the unwanted behavior.
Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3
If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at kjzeiher@gmail.com and let's connect!
Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/
XO-
Kaili